You must understand that my body acts out in aggressive ways both when I’m excited and frustrated. Your decision to watch it from discomfort is yours to have.
I do not want to harm anyone, I have little control over my body. Calming down takes me engaging my reasoning brain.
When I get overstimulated I may reach out and pinch mommy’s cheeks or push my forehead into her cheek. I am at work figuring out how to interrupt that loop of impulse.
Your happiness is yours to manifest, my body isn’t making your emotions. You must listen to my inside voice that indicates how much I love you.
So, your kids may exhibit similar bodily apparitions that can mask the true way they feel. Trust their inside voice has love in its heart and your reactions will keep love in the relationship.
Too many times we make up the wrong hard conclusion and don’t investigate what’s really happening in the relationship, creating more havoc than necessary.
No two people will understand a situation the same way, be interested in other’s view and you will be surprised how fast love shows up.
In love respectfully,