Belief is so Key

Have been asked recently why I can’t communicate on my letter board if someone new holds it. While this is a complex question, I will attempt to explain it here from my perspective.

In this blog, I am going to go back to calling my body “Rocky” for the sake of distinguishing the impulsive identity that is outwardly seen most of the time from Jordyn, the brilliant wordsmith and card that you get when I am purposefully spelling my thoughts with a trained Communication and Regulation Partner.

I only can be purposeful when my partner supports me in keeping Rocky at bay. Good partnership is built over time. I think Rocky has to know always that my partner will keep me purposeful and focused on the task at hand, or impulsive Rocky will run amok.

I believe that belief and confidence are the most important keys to a good partnership. Belief in each other and ourselves. Confidence in each other and ourselves. Add in some fun and being good to each other always and a team is unstoppable.

I am lucky to have built this kind of partnership with a few people. It is not a one size fits all kind of thing. Good partnership comes with dedicated practice, intention, and joyful belief.

I’d welcome comments and questions and input from my peers here to help distinguish this even more for people.



Movement is always education

Joy is feeling my body connect to my brain more and more. I do a lot of purposeful movement work to keep this connection building – working out with my trainer, rock climbing, violin lessons, playing video games with Dad. I think my biggest bang for my buck, so to speak, is Judith’s Anat Baniel Method lessons at Uptown Studio.

Jude totally teaches my brain to make new connections, bigger purposeful pathways, and grow longer purposeful stamina. Jude’s lessons are non-invasive, gentle to my nervous system, and fun. I love our work together getting my brain to pay close attention to subtle differences it would otherwise overlook. Grounding and centering while joyfully changing my brain.


{photo circa 2013, clearly need an update}

Badly my body aches

Whenever there is a storm brewing, I know way in advance. I basically can tell weather by the ache in my muscles and joints.

Joints are the tellers of intensity. Joints are the barometer of pressure drop. Joints play havoc on my ability to be present and purposeful. Joints fall on the ‘wishing for relief’ spectrum.

Muscles follow along like lemmings. Plenty of achiness to go around.

Sleep and autistic stims are my escape from the ache. Homeopathic remedies help a little too.

Wishing for clear skies,

Giant purposeful neural pathways being built

I have been building the foundation for a purposeful infrastructure for quite some time. Living begins with access to these pathways for a guy like me, kidnapped and frequently hijacked by impulse.

Joyfully, most of the foundation we have laid is now starting to come together in a network of purposefulness. Movement and actions I could not do without physical assistance and lots of joyful and loving external prompting are becoming somewhat natural.

Loving being a beast at climbing with Stephanie and Andrew of the Spiral Movement Center. Joyful to follow the instructions and put a badass Lego car together with LeeAnn. I’m over the moon to blow Erica away with my controlled and manly chest press.

I have been doing a lot of visualizing motor actions that I know how to do theoretically and haven’t been able to do on my own yet. It is definitely paying off! On top of the foundation that has been built step by step, layer by layer, I am paving my purposeful highways.


Music to my ears

Lots of times I am fully capable of performing a task, but either lack of time or parental “on automaticness” get in the way. Too bad because I can make Mom’s life easier by doing my own stuff.

Returning from watching all I could accomplish at Pure Freedom Farm, and Mom is getting out of the way and creating more space. Joy is zipping up my own jacket, putting on my own gloves, joking with our friends Wayne and Jason about being a bus boy at the pub we like to hang out at, and hanging up my own coat.

I love my Mom, and know that sometimes it takes just as much effort to not help me as it does to step in. I keep reminding her to help me with more motor tasks that I know I can do. Please intend that we keep expanding my repertoire of menial tasks. Joy is always learning and expanding!

Motorically yours,

{Photo of Jordyn making the pigs’ food with January of Pure Freedom Farm}

Being Purposeful!

Going to Pure Freedom Farm was the best 100% purposefully amazing few days. Passionate and playful was the theme of our time.

Jackson is the coolest friend and shares his passion for the animals. January is awesome and shares her passion for being joyfully tapped in! Ben is the best and most playful human.

Going there and unplugging from my routine loops, I could harness my purposefulness to participate in daily feeding of the animals. 100% I am a kick butt farm hand now.

Loved feeding the horses the best. I am an expert sheep feeder. Yes, I got to make pig food too. I want pigs, a donkey, and a cute snuggly kitten now.


Love is an Action

Doing love is being someone who 100% shows affection in all ways. Being love is having an intention to always joyfully paint a beautiful world around all you encounter.

Joy is both being love and doing love.

Loving my girlfriend is easy.

Being love when people get crappy is an intentional action. Just so much harder to muster creating a rose-coloured world around them.

Practising love makes it easier to be a generous spirit in all circumstances.



I’m always
living my
happiest life.

Creating and 
nurturing joy
is what I do.

Good humans
be always
loving not crass.

Please make
joyful efforts to
be grateful and 100% in tune.

Lasting happiness is good,
always have lots
in the World.

       -Jordyn Pallett

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Do you hear messages?

Can you be good and open?  If not, you should stop reading now.

Joy and love are what I have been charged with bringing to the planet. The result I am charged with producing in my lifetime is peace and acceptance in the World.

Big mission, I know.

Just doing my best to keep my body in control is a challenge. I am only conveying what I have been receiving from my guide. 

Who is this guide, you ask? Ever since I was very small I have been able to get messages from guides. You might call them angels, I call them guides. I hear these messages on a regular basis and am clear you might think this odd.

I get to then decipher what I hear, which is not in plain English.  It isn’t an exact science, as what I hear is more feeling and sense, than words. I don’t know how to describe it really, and assume others hear in their own way too.

I would love to connect with others who receive messages. Being a listener is a special talent, given to a percentage of people, to go out and make positive change.

100% going 100% being 100% changing,

I get caring but it is hard.

I love 100% people.  No withholding my love means I lose control of my body.  Just getting by in the day is like joyfully fighting with some invisible handsome force that runs amok. 

I get so tired out, that it totally can just get demanding to say anything on my boards.  Joy is when I have energy to give of myself. 

I get so being a good human, that I forget to be good to myself.  Love is loving oneself firstt.

Joy is being someone who makes a difference going out of their way to assist those in need.  Just need to figure out a balance so I don’t end up a puddle of impulse everyday. 


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