I’m always
living my
happiest life.

Creating and 
nurturing joy
is what I do.

Good humans
be always
loving not crass.

Please make
joyful efforts to
be grateful and 100% in tune.

Lasting happiness is good,
always have lots
in the World.

       -Jordyn Pallett

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Do you hear messages?

Can you be good and open?  If not, you should stop reading now.

Joy and love are what I have been charged with bringing to the planet. The result I am charged with producing in my lifetime is peace and acceptance in the World.

Big mission, I know.

Just doing my best to keep my body in control is a challenge. I am only conveying what I have been receiving from my guide. 

Who is this guide, you ask? Ever since I was very small I have been able to get messages from guides. You might call them angels, I call them guides. I hear these messages on a regular basis and am clear you might think this odd.

I get to then decipher what I hear, which is not in plain English.  It isn’t an exact science, as what I hear is more feeling and sense, than words. I don’t know how to describe it really, and assume others hear in their own way too.

I would love to connect with others who receive messages. Being a listener is a special talent, given to a percentage of people, to go out and make positive change.

100% going 100% being 100% changing,

I get caring but it is hard.

I love 100% people.  No withholding my love means I lose control of my body.  Just getting by in the day is like joyfully fighting with some invisible handsome force that runs amok. 

I get so tired out, that it totally can just get demanding to say anything on my boards.  Joy is when I have energy to give of myself. 

I get so being a good human, that I forget to be good to myself.  Love is loving oneself firstt.

Joy is being someone who makes a difference going out of their way to assist those in need.  Just need to figure out a balance so I don’t end up a puddle of impulse everyday. 


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Human Nature

Compassion and caring
is who we basically are.

Joy is loving,
giving, and contributing freely.

Why do some fight
joy as a way to live?

Good humans gracious,
joyfully just being real.

Authentic and free
we support our fellow humans.

Who do people
just insist on being right?

Let’s start a movement
of beauty, joy, and love.

Acceptance does not
invalidate your beliefs.

Can we live
in harmony please?


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I am all joyfully being 100% helpful

I get impacted in a big way by any tragic events around the World.  Just listen, this may seem weird to you, but I share my experience in hope that it makes a difference.

I guess the best way to describe this is to say that I am tapped in.  I feel the emotional climate like a wave of life giving or sucking force.  You have all felt this with individuals or groups in your life, now multiply that a million fold and you begin to get my world!

Joy breathes life in, sorrow and fear suck it out.  Joy is my jumper cables.  Joy and love keep my motor running.

Joy is in short supply these days.  I feel for my friends in Thousand Oaks, California, and use my energy to support just as much as I can.  Joy being part of any tragedy is people pulling together.

I wish tragedy didn’t have to occur for people to step out of their own bubble of life and extend a helping hand to their neighbours and community.  Maybe if we spent more time joyfully contributing to the community, then tragedy wouldn’t have to happen to remind us of the good in humanity.


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Change is body dysregulator

I’ve 100% noticed a shift in my ability to control my impulses with the change of seasons.  Or I should more accurately say, lack of control.

I notice the affects of weather on my body regularly – joyous when it is sunny and calm, joyous with a cool fall day with a slight breeze, joyous on a crisp winter day, just add any overcast, precipitation, or wind and I am an achy, brain foggy mess.  Now bring in a whole change of season and you have a recipe for dysregulation goo.

Everything may only look slightly different if you are an outside observer, just because I’m working 3x as hard to have the same level of control.  Every action is just that much harder to execute.


Challenges in being in love when your body does not cooperate easily

[Co-written 29-Oct-2018 by Jordyn and Graciela Lotharius (of DaretoListen.org)}

Do you know what it is like to intend to kiss someone and only bump noses?  Having to control our bodies while also feeling excited is not easy.  Just fighting our impulses to get up and run, jump, or go crazy with excitement takes all our focus and energy.  Challenges are many but it is worth it to overcome them!

Just being together is “I love you” time.  Jordyn is so wonderful to spend time with because he is so thoughtful.  Graciela is a demonstration of love in joyful action.  I love time together because my heart is complete.

Challenging bodies can not overtake love that is real.  Joy and joined hearts are what matters.  Getting good at expressing affection physically just earns us bonus magic.  Every day that we have the chance to be together is bliss.

Jordyn and Graciela

Good can always prevail

My loving parents are always looking out for me.  We are working through the plans for the future, in case something happens to them.

Sounds morbid, I know.  But it is also hugely empowering to be included.  My opinions and choices matter to them.  I know I’m 15, but I also have a good head on my shoulders and will be responsible for my life should they leave me abruptly.  I love being given the responsibility to think 2, 5, and 10 years out into my future.

I believe that the more responsibility I am given, the more I rise to the occasion.  Others may not choose to involve their kids in this type of planning, and that is completely every family’s choice.  I just want to share that my experience with it has been empowering because my 15 year old self is being valued for my ideas and opinions, and is an equal player in the family planning game.

Now let’s all create these plans never get put in to practice.


I am an award recipient

My community is amazing. In celebration of 25 years of three culturally significant joy-filled establishments – Theatre Orangeville, Museum of Dufferin, and In The Hills magazine – chose to honour the youth in the region.  Twenty-five under 25 were nominated to receive an award.  It recognizes the passion of the recipient and the goodness of their deeds.

Just being nominated is an achievement, but winning blows me away.  I have an amazing group of friends who saw me as worthy.

On Saturday, we were all honoured in a beautiful, fun, and moving ceremony.  Joy filled the Theatre as each recipient went up on stage to receive their award.  Just staying in my seat was tough as I was so darn happy.

I wrote part of my Thank You ahead of time for Mom to read –

Thank you ALL so much for this honour.
I have been the lucky recipient of a lot of loving attention and intention in my life in Dufferin.
My wish is that all non, minimally, and unreliably speaking autistics be recognized as the intelligent and ultra-sensitive, hilarious and loving humans we are AND have access to their full self-expression.
Everyone deserves to be heard and accepted exactly as they are, while being empowered to shoot for their dreams.

I then spelled in front of the huge Theatre –

I am lucky to live in such an accepting community.

And attempted to say – “Thank you very much” – with my voice, but was way too quiet to be heard.

I was in awe of the other 24 recipients.  You can see why here.  Full stories and portraits, by Pete Paterson, will be featured in the winter issue of In The Hills.

I was so stoked to be able to share the day with a few of my ever joyful and loving posse!  They cried and took video.

-Jordyn, the Award Winner


Waves of Friendship

(co-written by Elliot Sylvester and Jordyn)

The best thing in the World is spending time with friends.
Always, with friends, you can totally be yourself.
I believe that the ability to be yourself is one of the greatest gifts.
Choosing friends is easy when they are as cool as Elliot.
Imagine a friend that gets who you really are… that’s Jordyn.
Good buddies that plan on taking over the World with a wave of love – that’s us!

Great friends multiply love when we spend quality time together.
Calling us friends is almost not a sufficient word.
Perhaps a new word sandwich should be created.
Joy-sparks.  Totally appropriate.

We need friendships on a regular basis which is hard to come by.
I believe that Joysparks are what will change the tide of this World from fear to love. 
Who wants to ride the wave of Joysparks with us?
Just imagine a gathering of Joysparks and the difference we could make.
What do you think the ripple effect would be from all those quality Joysparks?
All I know is I am doing all I can to foster more Joysparks, because when you are loved and empowered just the way you are, you fire off more sparks of joy.
The World can use more Joysparks so go forth and multiply by giving some extra love to your friends.

Jordyn and BFF Elliot Sylvester